March 28, 2013

Thinking Outside the Basket

I have to admit that I'm not a big fan of the Easter Bunny.  He and I have never been on very good terms.  Honestly, I find much of what he does to be messy, wasteful and well, annoying.  I hate buying Easter baskets.  What purpose do they serve after Easter is over?  We have 4 kids living in a small house.  I have to keep my clutter to a minimum.  I know that they can be reused next year and I have reused the ones that I have bought, but I would much rather fill something useful with goodies for the kids.  Here are some ideas that I've used in the past and some that I will  use in the future. 

1.  Picnic basket.  I did this for Corrina one year.  I bought the basket, filled it with Easter goodies.  This picnic set still gets used 7ish years later.



2.  Corrina got a sandbox from the Bunny when she was 3.  Her "basket" of treats was a sand pale filled with toys.



3.  My kids love to garden with their dad and uncle.  If you have a gardener, why not fill a small wheel barrow or wagon with gardening tools, seeds, and of course a chocolate bunny.
 
 


 
4. Corrina is 9. She spends all of her free time painting her nails, removing the paint and starting over again. For the tween, why not buy a make up bag and fill it with nail polishes, remover and design kits



5. Kennedy is 5 and loves to help in the kitchen. If you have a chef-in-training, you could fill a mixing bowl with an apron, some fun kitchen utensils and a couple mixes. Don't forget to throw on a few plastic eggs for cracking practice!




6. For babies, I love the idea of a bath time basket. Fill a bath toy basket with toys, washcloths, a towel, bubble bath or wash.

 
 


7. Arts and crafts. What kid doesn't love arts and crafts? Try filling an organizer with chalk, finger paint, watercolors, paper, glue sticks, google eyes, the list goes on and on.



8. For the reader, you could fill a tote bag with books, bookmarks, a Barnes & noble gift card. For smaller kids, let them take their bag to the library on Monday and sign up for their very own library card!





9. With summer vacation being just around the corner, you could fill a beach tote with pool toys, a towel, sunglasses, and a new suit.



10. If you're not interested in a theme, you could always try using a storage container of some sort. This year, I bought a small one for Corrina and a big one for the other girls to share. I got these at Target.  The heart storage boxes are sold individually in stores, but not online.  I think I paid 3.99 for one.
 
 



There are tons of ways to avoid pesky Easter baskets. When it is all said and done, you may need to use a filler. My suggestion is to avoid that awful Easter grass stuff. Try tissue paper instead. It can always be reused for gifts or crafts.

March 27, 2013

Goodbye, Old Yeller

I spend a lot of time looking at myself and thinking of ways that I can change for the better, especially in my parenting.  When it comes to the way I parent, I am constantly trying to make improvements.  Recently, I took a look at myself and realized that I yell.  A lot.  I yell to be heard.  I yell when people are in trouble.  I yell when I'm frustrated.  I yell because I'm in a bad mood and I take it out on others.  I yell because the kids move too slowly to the car.  I yell because nobody is listening to me. 

I've decided to challenge myself to stop yelling, ESPECIALLY at the kids.  I have tried to rationalize my yelling.  I've told myself that it's necessary.  If I don't yell, how will the kids know that I'm angry or when they're in trouble?  How will anyone know to listen to me?  The answer is simple.  I will tell them.  When I'm yelling, I am not conveying my feelings, the kids are not learning any lessons, and everyone tunes me out.  Yelling does not get results. 

When I yell at my kids, they are learning that it's OK to yell at others in order to get what they want.  They learn that I'm not listening to them.  They learn that it's OK to make others feel like crap because you're mad.  These are not things I want my children doing and yet, here I am teaching them to do exactly that. 

I want my kids to listen to others.  I want them to be able to convey their feelings without hurting others.  I want my kids to respect me and others and know that I respect them.  I want them to learn self-control.  I want them to know that people are people, whether grown up or small.  It is not OK for me to do the opposite of what I tell them just because I'm an adult.  I want them to learn by example. 

My plan is to go 1 month without yelling.  I am on day 2.  It hasn't been easy, but I know it will improve my relationship with the girls and hopefully their relationship with each other.


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